May 01, 2011

Get Married soon



Is it the tittle that misdirect u to my blog?? if yes, Sorry..but literally i mmg sengaja pun nk misdirect korang.
anyway, "why i'm sooo in a rush to get married?" seriously that particular quest keeps popping up and like whipping through my mind. Even i'm sick with that question coming from mum,sista, brother and it was like the whole family members keep throwing me the same question. (but friends? u know, they never ask but give full of non-stop support :) )

Well, who is there to be blame. Is it okie, if i  blame the sosial pressure for the tension that i'm abandoned with? because i really hope that i'm anaesthezied from all this social pressure.Get free from this tinge of mind torture. Gosh, why is it hard to believe that every single things come combo with a reasons?


fuhh! Enough.
Anyway, sebenarnya kan Fariez was searching bout How to live moderately as a Muslim (inspired by someone) macam mana ntah boleh misdirect ke entry blog orang.Ala,cerita pasal kawen macam magnetic power,having the forces that pull me towards it and give something like a magnetice excitement/ self-excitement or something ?


uh, merepek je.Assignment tak siap lagi T__T 
okiela rader(s), have a read on this.

1. KETIKA MENCARI CALON
Janganlah mencari isteri, tapi carilah ibu bagi anak-anak . 
Janganlah mencari suami, tapi carilah ayah bagi anak-anak.

2. KETIKA MELAMAR
Anda bukan sedang meminta kepada orang tua/wali si gadis, 
tetapi meminta kepada Allah melalui orang tua/wali si gadis.

3. KETIKA AKAD NIKAH
Anda berdua bukan menikah di hadapan penghulu, tetapi menikah di hadapan Allah.

4. KETIKA RESEPSI PERNIKAHAN
Catat dan hitung semua tamu yang datang untuk mendoa’kan anda, 
kerana anda harus berfikir untuk mengundang mereka semua dan meminta maaf apabila anda 
berfikir untuk BERCERAI kerana menyia-nyiakan do’a mereka.

5. KETIKA MALAM PERTAMA
Bersyukur dan bersabarlah. Anda adalah sepasang anak manusia dan bukan sepasang malaikat.

6. SELAMA MENEMPUH HIDUP BERKELUARGA
Sedarilah bahawa jalan yang akan dilalui tidak melalui jalan bertabur bunga,
 tapi juga semak belukar yang penuh onak dan duri.

7. KETIKA RUMAH TANGGA GOYANG
Jangan saling berlepas tangan, tapi sebaliknya justru semakin erat berpegang tangan
 noted: 7 point of wise words above is kopipes from TARTUS


9 comments:

Anonymous said...

aku tunggu di alexmed

CONNIE said...

nik eh?

Nik.Arif said...

hello kak,nik di sini. takde maknanye aku nk jadi anon :)

kakak, kau kawen lambat or cepat, i'm really looking forward for ur big day,so tolonglah jgn lupe invite aku yer. aku doakan dipermudahkan segala2nya bg kau.peace.

p/s aku bukan anon di atas. :p

CONNIE said...

nik: hahaha. igtkan kau. sbb kat Alex ni sape jela yang ber aku-kau dgn aku??ermm..

can't think of any name..Meor ke?

Anonymous said...

semoga cepat2 dan dipermudahkan segala urusan..
sy pon bkn anon di atas..
~zuna~

CONNIE said...

wa~ so sweet! tq Zuna :)

Anonymous said...

nope..i'm your secret admirer,
and i stalk you everyday..
really..

(:

CONNIE said...

Anon : hoh! that's enough to scare me!

Anonymous said...

yeah you should..

i see u..